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When you bought your phone it may have already had the latest firmware installed and yes your phone is still safe to use
Some advice, Don't update your Xperia Ray to ICS, it will slow down your phone dramatically, gingerbread its quite stable.
I have an Xperia Arc, and it's horrible on ICS, I've downgrad my Arc to Gingerbread.
You might want to use Chrome instead